Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Help with girl question (guys and girls answer)?

Ok so I am almost done my first year of college and I have never been outgoing towards the opposite sex because I guess im just a pu**y when it come to girls. However before college about a year from now there was this girl (a grade below me) I had been seeing for a while who i met because my best friend and her best friend were and still are going out. I really liked her and she really really really liked me but i blew it due to my lack of making a move because I am a pu**y. During my spring break about three weeks ago I saw her for the first time after we stopped talking about a year ago at a mini party with close friends. It surprisingly wasnt awkward at all even tho we didnt talk to much. I am now starting to think about her a little and maybe i want to try to hang out with her in the summer and hopefully start up something cuz she just an awesome person and pretty and like i just click with her. DO you think i should pursue her or forget about her because after the summer ill be back at college about 2 hours from home and she will be at some other college.Help with girl question (guys and girls answer)?
youl regret it if you dont sounds like you found something special in her. and trust me if she liked you then you can fix things. i was like that but did end up managing to get with this amazing girl she was one of a kind then even though i knew what i should do i alwas doubted myself and in the end we broke up. it was obvious she was still in love with me but as usually i doubted what i knew. so finally another girl came along and i just went for it to try to get over her guess what never completely did then after 2 years of hell and her not letting me talk to her which sucked since she was still my best friend. out of the blue i told her i wanted to be with her again we started talking and i stole her away from her fiance and we couldnt be happier. anyways i rambled a little but the point is sometimes its never to late and you have to go for what you think is right. when i met her i was shy as hell i had been on the dating site she was on for months and never had the courage to message anyone and i saw her and something told me i had to. so just go for it and dont doubt your self that what will help you the most i used to be worse then you by the way thats one big reason i won my girl back surprised the hell out of her when she found out everything i had been saying wasnt just talk lol. so long story short go for it, be confident, and dont give up.Help with girl question (guys and girls answer)?
If you really love her for herself, then go for it, bro. But it you want her for 'that other reason', then I don't think you should, really. If you want to focus on college, you can always have a go with her afterward.If she's still annoyed, I suggest you sweeten her up or wait till she's not annoyed anymore. Anyway, be sure you can LIVE with her around. It might be a little different. Have fun.
Man up and ask her out! What is the worse that can happen? She says no and its no big deal. She says yes then it could be great!





You are a young man and I'm pushing 50 so let me give you some advice son. Very seldom do we look back with regret on the things we did. We regret the things we don't do. You have to take control of your love life or you are going to regret it. Good luck to you!





Tim
follow ur heart.
You should definitely go for it and pursue her. Maybe she is old fashioned like some girls are and won't come up to you, so you have to go up to her. Ive had plenty of guys tell me they liked me in high school but they were always too shy to approach me, and most of the time i wish they would have because they could have been great people to hang out with. You never know what could happen if you don't give it a try. It doesn't matter if she isn't going to the same college as u there will still be plenty of opportunities for you both to talk and see each other, long distance relationships work if you want them to. GOOD LUCK!!!! P.S ur not a pu**y its okay to be nervous about someone u like.

No comments:

Post a Comment